VERY IMPORTANT LESSON
You will never marry well until you are ready to love correctly. Genuine love starts from your spirit way before any man comes. If you're not passionate about a guy in love, it is better to pack your load and leave.!
If the brother you're thinking of saying yes to is someone you're not passionately in love with, it is better to reconsider your decision. A loveless relationship cannot survive no matter how spiritual you are. Love has a big role to play in a marital relationship.
Among others, love is an ingredient that will sustain your relationship through thick and thin, even your marriage. It is not just enough to love that guy, you must have passion for him like fire🔥... There must be a Godly desire for him in your heart of hearts.
I am not talking about mere lust here. Lust thrives on your sense and physical things. There is no such thing as love at first sight. How can you fall in love with a total stranger because he is tall, dark and handsome? Because he speaks good English and smell nice? Because he appears quite nice and rich?
That is destruction! People are deeper than you think, than they appear. Of course, there is a place for building friendship but it all boils down to genuine love not lust. Some carnal sisters will even start having sleepless night the moment they meet a "fine bobo". They are easily carried away by what they see. That is not love, ma. It is mere infatuation!
Love is first of all built up in your spirit not in what you see. Things are much more deeper than they appear. How can a brother come and catch you unawares? Where did you keep your spirit? Where did you send your senses? What happened to your spirituality? Hian!
Genuine LOVE and passion is a vital tool for building a successful relationship o. Yes ma, love is important. Aunty, if you walk down the aisle with a guy you have no desire for, who you do not connect with, in the name of spirituality, you have signed a life contract of unfaithfulness.
Dear spiritual and "the Lord says" sisters, please hear this. 👉🏾 God wants you to enjoy your marriage. Marriage is the sweetest gift you can receive from God after salvation. He wants to give you a man who loves you and will love you all the way, come what may. He wants to give you a man you are and will always be passionate about.
When you marry a person whose love is well seated in your heart, you will find FULFILMENT and SATISFACTION, regardless of whatever happens! Above all, never marry out of the Lord's will. Marry in God, marry in Love. God is LOVE. Allow the God of love take over your martial decisions. He knows what is best for you!
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